I personally am everyone's cheerleader! I LOVE to see people succeed in anything they are passionate about. It brings me great joy to witness and or share in what excites or motivates others even if it's not my thing! Everyone deserves happiness! Everyone deserves to have others believe in them! Everyone deserves to feel loved and cared for.
Now, that doesn't mean that everyone you come across is gonna love ya! Lol! Shoot, I'm probably the sweetest and most giving person you will EVER meet and people do me bogus, talk about me, mistake my kindness for weakness and hate all day! But you know what!? THAT IS MY MOTIVATION!!! I stop, look around, and see who's clapping when I'm down and who's silent when I get my ass back up! I may not say a word, but believe me; I know! There are vibrations in everything and I am in tune!!!
Why can't we just support each other? I love a little competition and won't EVER back down, EVER! I personally know chicks that lift way heavier than me and I brag about them all the time!!! There is ALWAYS going to be someone that's better!!! Why can't people just accept and embrace that and cheer that better person on!?!?
It's called SELF-hate!
When one is not okay with themselves, they will ALWAYS have difficulties with others. They will always highlight the flaws of others, talk about others, focus on what others are or are not doing, and all to keep from focusing on themselves (where the true focus should be). They will attempt to get others to dislike someone based on their irrational, self-defeated thinking.
The world would be a better place if these individuals looked long, hard, and deeply within. But what do I know!?!? Lol!
The point of this post is to bring awareness to what many experience while trying to better themselves (unnecessary hate) and to challenge each of you to take a look at yourselves. When you speak, let it be about yourself and not about anyone else especially if it's negative. Challenge your negative thoughts about others that surface. Make it a point to be supportive of your competition as they are working just as hard as you if not harder! It's okay to acknowledge hard work! Be kind and do no harm!
As leaders we have to do better at setting examples! We wonder why the world is the way it is. The change we want to see in the world has to starts with us!
So for anyone that feels I have wronged them in any way, I sincerely apologize. I invite you to discuss our interactions in person, with nothing but love, respect, and the the goal of being better human beings.
If while reading this post, your gutt twinged in any way, or you immediately dismissed the fact that you could be a problem before doing that scan inward, or if you automatically assume this was directed at you... Then this post landed exactly before the eyes in which it was intended. Reasonable, stable, open minded, sane adults don't fear exploring themselves at a DEEP level. Nor do they fear loving, giving, or being kind to others or what they look like while doing those things.
I wish each and every one of you peace, love, and beauty within this short life. Don't assume you will live to be 80, because most of us won't. Live and interact with the world and others as if today is the last day you will exist. Treat others as if you will never see them again, because you just may not.
BE A GOOD HUMAN!
DO GOOD FOR OTHERS!
DO HARM TO NOONE!
The world thanks you!
~me
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